Ray died in his home in Boulder, Colo., July 10, 2014.
After preparing at Hotchkiss, he roomed at Princeton with Dave Ross, Chet Rice, Carl Barton, John Murdock, and Barney Holland. He was treasurer of Charter and played varsity lacrosse and hockey. Ray was a member of the English Club and received his degree in mechanical engineering.
He joined the Navy to serve in the Pacific as a lieutenant junior grade. Ray’s ship was en route to Japan preparing for an invasion when the war ended.
In 1947, he married Jane Kilner, with whom he had four children. After working for two steel companies, Ray joined Laughlin Steel Co., retiring in 1977.
After 25 years of marriage, he was divorced and subsequently married Mary Evert Van Brunt, who died after 26 years of marriage. He came back to six major class reunions.
Known for his limericks, quick wit, and stories, Ray is survived by Jane, his first wife; his daughter, Kate; sons Ravi and James; and nine grandchildren.