Charles B. Gray ’56

Charley died Sept. 29, 2024, in Pittsburgh, where he was legendary in the arts and music community.

Charley followed his father, Gilson B. Gray 1920, and brother Gilson III ’53 to Princeton after Phillips Exeter. He majored in English and sang in the Glee Club while playing sports for Colonial Club. After Army service, Charley began a distinguished career in musical theater, first as a Broadway production manager and then on to directing. He eventually was named general manager of the Pittsburgh Civic Light Opera, where from 1982 to 1996 he produced 85 musicals. Charley was especially devoted to excellence in high school musicals, founding the Gene Kelly Awards now given out in more than 40 cities. Many groups honored his work including the NJ Music Critics, the National Council of Children, the Pittsburgh New Works Festival, and the Phoenix award in Buenos Aires.

Charley was just as creative in private life. A friend said, “A night around the table with Charley was magic.” He enjoyed telling stories about his escapades and reciting poems and lyrics he wrote for special occasions.

Charley is survived by his wife, Patricia Palermo Gray; his brother Gilson; two brothers-in-law and one sister-in law; and 18 nieces and nephews.