Frederick J. Thielbar ’65

No one who ever met Rick forgot him. He was a genial, energetic, funny, larger than life character who got the most out of everything and lived a long, happy, and productive life with his wife, Wendy, three daughters, and nine grandchildren. 

Born March 21, 1943, he attended Summit (N.J.) High School before arriving to join us. He majored in basic engineering, belonged to Dial Lodge, and rowed on the lightweight varsity crew. 

His life work involved a long and absorbing career on major construction projects, with postings in many parts of the globe, on behalf of Chicago Bridge & Iron and later, the consulting firm of Metcalf & Eddy. He was adept at understanding the office and field crew on projects and was an effective bridge between these two aspects. 

In 2002, Rick returned from a seven-year posting in Singapore, eventually settling in Exeter, N.H., where he seized the opportunity to design and build his retirement home. He was never happier than with a tool in his hand and more on his belt. In between building their house and working on the Exeter Zoning Board, he and Wendy traveled the globe visiting family and old friends. If there was a long and winding road somewhere, he was ready to explore it. 

Rick died Nov. 14, 2022. He is survived by Wendy; daughters Betsy, Kate, and Sara ’93; and nine grandchildren. The class sends condolences to the family for their loss of this fine, energetic remarkable man.